I heard from my lawyer today that the efforts we've been making to enable my access to the records for my father's trust (to which I am legally entitled and have every right to pursue) are "making life difficult" for my father's widow!
WooHoo! Sweet, sweet justice.
Chew on the notion that a trustee with nothing to hide would be completely unperterbed by what I've been doing. It's really just notifying the financial institutions of my existence and interest in pursuing my rights as co-trustee.