"When you see love as a way of being present for somebody rather than just "feeling" something for them, everything changes."
This is a blurb on an advertising insert from Shambhala, a book publisher, that was in a book I bought last week. It is advertising this book--How to Be and Adult in Relationships, by David Richo.
I have not read or even seen the book, I know nothing about it. This post is not about the book, it's about this blurb I saw in the advertising insert.
But, that one sentence has a treasure trove of wisdom in it. Oh, if I had just realized that 30 years ago....